How to Reprogram Your Mind

An honest answer, including the part where the word "reprogram" is doing you a disservice.

You cannot reprogram your mind the way you would reflash a phone, and almost everything sold under that phrase quietly depends on you believing that you can. What you can do is change a belief, which is a slower and considerably more interesting process. It takes two ingredients that most advice leaves out one of: repetition, and the state your body is in while you repeat. This page is about what actually moves a belief, what the evidence says about the most popular method, and how to tell the difference.

Why "reprogramming" is the wrong picture

The metaphor comes from computing, and it smuggles in an assumption that does not hold. A computer has a place where the instructions live, and you can go there and overwrite them. You have nothing of the sort. What you have is a very large number of physical connections between cells, laid down by everything that has ever happened to you, and reinforced every single time you have thought or done a thing again.

That is genuinely good news, because it means the mechanism for change is not deletion. It is competition. You are not erasing an old belief, you are building a new one that gets reached for faster. The old road stays on the map. It just stops being the one you take by default because a better one now exists.

It also explains why the change feels slow at the start and then, at some point, does not feel like effort at all. You are not waiting for an update to install. You are wearing in a path.

Why repeating affirmations at yourself often makes things worse

The standard advice is to repeat the thing you want to be true until you believe it. There is real research on that, and it is not flattering.

In a study published in Psychological Science in 2009, Joanne Wood, Elaine Perunovic and John Lee had people repeat the statement "I'm a lovable person" and measured how they felt afterwards. Among people with high self esteem, mood improved, though only slightly. Among people with low self esteem, the ones repeating the statement felt worse than the people who had not repeated anything at all. The authors' own summary is worth quoting: repeating positive self statements "may benefit certain people, but backfire for the very people who 'need' them the most." (Wood, Perunovic and Lee, Psychological Science, 2009.)

The reason is not mysterious. If you say something to yourself that your body flatly does not believe, part of you spends the moment producing counterevidence. You have not installed a new belief. You have run a small argument and lost it. Repeating it more often just means losing more often.

So the honest answer to "do affirmations work" is: not on their own, and for some people not at all. Which raises the more useful question.

The missing ingredient is the state you are in

Here is the thing that the affirmation advice leaves out. Your receptiveness to a new idea about yourself is not constant. It depends on what your nervous system is doing at the time.

When you are activated, guarded, braced, running the day, the part of you that scans for threat is busy and the part that could take on a new self concept is not the one holding the microphone. Try to hand yourself a generous new belief in that state and it gets checked at the door. When you are genuinely settled, the guard is not standing there. The same sentence lands differently, because there is nothing arguing with it.

This is why "get calm first" is not a nice preliminary to the real work. It is the work, or at least half of it. Anyone who has tried to accept a compliment on a bad day and on a good day already knows this from the inside.

To be clear about what is established and what is reasoning: neuroplasticity and the effect of repetition are well studied, and the Wood study above is a real result about affirmations. The claim that a settled nervous system makes you more receptive is the operating principle Envision Yoga is built on rather than a finding I can hand you a citation for. It is worth saying which is which.

What actually changes a belief

Four things, in this order.

1. Pick something specific and one size up from where you are

"I am a confident person" is too far from the current evidence for most people to accept, which is exactly the failure mode in the Wood study. "I can handle this conversation" is close enough to be plausible and useful enough to matter. Believable beats impressive. You can raise the ceiling later.

2. Get the body settled before you say anything

A long slow exhale, a few minutes of gentle yoga, a walk, whatever reliably takes you down a gear. If you are not sure what does that for you, there is a full rundown on nervous system regulation. The rule is simple. Do not attempt the sentence while braced.

3. Feel it rather than say it

The version of this that works is not verbal. It is rehearsing the experience: what it is like to be the person who handles that conversation, what your shoulders do, how you sound, what you notice. Your brain treats a vividly rehearsed experience as meaningful practice in a way that it does not treat a slogan. More on this in the power of visualization, and if you cannot picture things at all, it still works and here is why.

4. Repeat it more often than feels necessary

This is where nearly everyone stops early. A new path gets worn by traffic, not by intention. Weekly for a couple of months does more than an intense weekend, which is the same arithmetic as any other kind of training.

What about hypnosis, and what about the 95 percent figure?

Two things come up constantly in this corner of the internet, so here is the plain version of both.

Hypnosis is a different thing and Envision Yoga is not it. In hypnosis you are handing over a degree of control to a practitioner. In an Envision Yoga session you are awake and in charge the entire time, and you would have no difficulty standing up and leaving. That is the whole differentiator and it matters to people, which is why it is stated plainly rather than left vague.

The other one is the claim that your subconscious runs 95 percent of your day. You will see it everywhere, usually without a source, and the number changes depending on who is selling. Treat it as a slogan rather than a finding. The useful point underneath it survives without the statistic: a lot of what you do runs on autopilot, and autopilot is built by repetition. That part is true and does not need a fake number.

How Envision Yoga does this

Envision Yoga is a mental fitness method built around exactly the sequence above, with one addition. A session pairs bilateral audio, alternating left and right sound through headphones or speakers on either side of your mat, with gentle yoga, visualization and affirmations.

The alternating sound is the same mechanism found inside EMDR therapy. It is used here to settle the nervous system into a calm, receptive state, which takes care of step two more reliably than trying to talk yourself down. Then the yoga, the rehearsal and the affirmation go in while the guard is off, which is steps one, three and four. Nothing exotic is happening. It is the ordinary process, done in the state where it has the best chance of taking.

It is not therapy and it is not hypnosis. It does not diagnose or treat anything. The full science and lineage is on where this comes from, and if you want the comparison to the best known name in this space, there is an honest one on Envision Yoga and Tony Robbins.

If what you actually want is somebody to talk this through with on a weekly basis rather than practise it, that is a different profession and it is worth knowing what you are buying. There is an honest guide to what a mindset coach does, written from outside the industry.

If you want to try it

The cheapest test is a class: Wednesdays at 7:30pm in Echo Park, at Light and Space Yoga. Details on the classes page. If you already know the specific belief you want to work on, that is what a private session is for, in Los Angeles or over Zoom with stereo headphones.

Or start with none of that. Pick one sentence that is one size up from true, get settled, and rehearse it as an experience rather than a phrase. That is the whole method in a form that costs nothing.

Try it in a room

Wednesdays in Echo Park, or one on one in LA or over Zoom.

Common questions

Can you actually reprogram your subconscious mind?
Not in the way the phrase suggests. There is no file to overwrite. What you can do is build a new pattern that gets reached for faster than the old one, through repetition in a settled state. The old pattern does not get deleted, it stops being the default.

How long does it take to change a belief?
Longer than a weekend and shorter than you fear, and it depends far more on how often you practise than on how hard. Most people underestimate the number of repetitions and overestimate the intensity required.

Do affirmations work?
On their own, often not. A 2009 study in Psychological Science found that people with low self esteem felt worse after repeating a positive self statement than people who repeated nothing. Affirmations tend to work when the body is settled first and when the statement is close enough to plausible that you are not arguing with it.

Is this hypnosis?
No. In an Envision Yoga session you are awake and in charge the whole time. Nobody takes control of anything, and you could stand up and leave at any point.

Is this therapy?
No. Envision Yoga is mental fitness, not therapy, and it does not diagnose or treat anything. If you are working through something heavy, a licensed clinician is the right first call.

Envision Yoga is a neuroscience-backed mental fitness method created by Leah Davis, E-RYT 500, teaching since 2011. It is not therapy and not a substitute for it. Questions? Read the FAQs or book a free 15-minute call.